1. Absolutely surround yourself with the right people. There are a lot of negative individuals in the world, but there are a lot of extremely passionate, driven and likeminded people. My family are absolutely the best I could ever ask for. I was in Cheltenham at the time, and Bex was away at the Commonwealth Games, so they looked after me. Team Passion Fit were instrumental in my process of getting back up and looking at new races, and they were heading to IRONMAN Lanzarote too, so with the course profile, it was a no brainer.
Every single sponsor was incredible, and supported me 100%, gave me ‘get well’ shoutouts. The triathlon world is a lovely place, and I had so many nice messages.
2. Talk to others. Remember you’re not alone - so many people have gone through similar ‘setbacks’ - so ask advice and get support. I’ve never had concussion before, so didn’t realise how long, and how much it takes out of you.
3. Share the journey - allow other people to see you’re human and everyone has setbacks, and also suffers mentally from them. As an athlete I will always be honest. I came back up to Scotland after the crash, and whilst the south had a heatwave, we had awful weather - wet, dark, cold. So this didn’t help my mentality and I actually got quite depressed. It’s lucky I have the most supportive partner in the world, and we decided to do a few months of managing a long distance relationship, and I moved back home (to my parents joy) to be in the right environment to prep me for Lanzarote.
4. Get a coach who isn’t just a coach, one that you can share the journey with. Rob was fantastic, between him, Susie and Bex - we all know I have a lot of potential, but over 2017 literally every race some form of setback happened; mechanicals, illness, injury, so I was never full able to race to my potential. Then when this happened after the perfect winter block, it knocked me so much. But they all stood by my side and supported me more than I could ever imagined possible.
5. Join in with a club, group sessions and create a happy environment. This is paramount. Happiness is key for success, and the right environment is paramount for allowing this to happen. There are so many clubs, group sessions and classes with all different levels of ability, age, experience levels in the sport, people going through setbacks or similar life experiences to you. Get involved, never go alone, sharing the journey is what its all about!